How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 01.07.2025 05:04
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
47 Absolutely Shocking Secrets People Had Casually Revealed To Them - BuzzFeed
Making more friends is a goal.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Wall Street floods into Bitcoin Futures as CME trader count hits all-time high - AMBCrypto
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
What did Rama tell Sita about Kaliyug?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
OpenAI reportedly ‘recalibrating’ compensation in response to Meta hires - TechCrunch
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Ask yourself:
What is Vitamin D deficiency: Know its causes, symptoms, and how to fix it - Times of India
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Do not set goals—set systems.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Fermenting legume pulses increases antioxidant and antidiabetic properties, study finds - Phys.org
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
George, Charlotte ,and Louis Are the Royal Family’s Salvation - The Daily Beast
Hangs out with loser friends.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Home goods retailer closing 26 stores: Here’s list of locations - AL.com
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Procrastinates a lot.
Microsoft belatedly attempts to tame USB-C confusion with its rules for PC OEMs - Ars Technica
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Trying To Build Muscle? Here's The Type Of Protein You Should Eat - Women's Health
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Does not procrastinate.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
What I need from you?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
That's it for today.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Losing 20kg is a goal.